Grieving Mother Accused of Attempted Murder

In Massachusetts the trial started yesterday, April 5, 2011 for Kristin LaBrie, the mother who is charged with attempted murder and endangerment of her autistic son by withholding medication for non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma.  In October 2006, Jeremy Fraser was diagnosed with treatable cancer. Doctors gave him an 85 percent to 90 percent chance of recovery, according to Assistant District Attorney Kate B. MacDougall. The boy was given large doses of chemotherapy in the hospital and his cancer went into remission.

The cure rate for non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma is high but there is a risk of developing secondary malignancies.  Information collected about long-term survivors provides insight into the causes of second cancers. Patients with non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma are usually treated with combination chemotherapy with or without radiation therapy.

Defense attorney Kevin James said LaBrie became exhausted and upset because the medication’s side effects made Jeremy sick. I feel it is a gross miscarriage of justice to be prosecuting this grieving mother for attempted murder because she allegedly withheld the very medications that more than likely were the actual agents for the secondary cancer – the real cause of death.  The long-term effects of chemotherapy on health include many kinds of complications. The most common is infertility. If you are young and have not yet had children your doctor will try to choose the drugs that are least likely to cause infertility. Other long term effects are much less common, but include heart disease, damage to the lungs and the or secondary malignancies in the future. In addition to treating cancer, chemotherapy drugs and radiation therapy are also carcinogenic, which means they can cause cancer. Other causes for pediatric secondary primary cancers include genetic disorders

Jeremy Fraser died in March 2009 at age nine of Leukemia.  At that time he was in custody of his father, Eric Fraser who passed away shortly after his son’s death due to a motorcycle accident. Leukemia is another kind of cancer that prosecutors say was caused because the mother didn’t give the maintenance chemotherapy for his non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma.

After reviewing only news articles – not medical charts, or other evidence, it is my nursing / medical-legal consultant opinion that this mother did not attempt to murder her son. Of special note, no mention of referrals to support groups for this overburdened mother was made. Neither was there any reference to recommendation of counseling to help her deal with her special needs child, who also had cancer.

Margaret L. Turley RN

4/7/11 Correction of Error above:

What’s the difference between Hodgkin’s disease and non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma?

Answer

from Ruben A. Mesa, M.D.

Both Hodgkin lymphoma (formerly known as Hodgkin’s disease) and non-Hodgkin lymphoma (also known as non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma) are lymphomas, a type of cancer that originates in a subset of white blood cells called lymphocytes. Lymphocytes are an important part of your immune system. The main difference between Hodgkin and non-Hodgkin lymphoma is in the specific lymphocyte each involves.

A doctor can tell the difference between Hodgkin and non-Hodgkin lymphoma by examining the cancer cells under a microscope. If in examining the cells, the doctor detects the presence of a specific type of abnormal cell called a Reed-Sternberg cell, the lymphoma is classified as Hodgkin. If the Reed-Sternberg cell is not present, the lymphoma is classified as non-Hodgkin.

The distinction is important because the treatment for each type can be very different.

During research on secondary cancers the older term Hodgkin’s disease was used in the article and I transposed that error into my article. Please accept my apologies for this unintentional error.

 

A Child’s Hug

This story by George Carroll was shared with me by my brother. I felt it was perfect to share with you.

We were the only family with children in the restaurant.. I sat Erik in a high chair and noticed everyone was quietly sitting and talking.

Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, “Hi.” He pounded his fat baby hands on the high chair tray. His eyes were crinkled in laughter and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin, as he wriggled and giggled with merriment.

I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man whose pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map. We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled. His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists.

“Hi there, baby; Hi there, big boy. I see! ya, buster,” the man said to Erik.
My husband and I exchanged looks, “What do we do?”
Erik continued to laugh and answer, “Hi”.
Everyone in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man.
The old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby.
Our meal came and the man began shouting from across the room, “Do ya patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows peek-a-boo.”

Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was obviously drunk.
My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence – all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring skidrow bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments. We finally got through the meal and headed for the door.
My husband went to pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot.
The old man sat poised between me and the door. “Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik,” I prayed.

As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to sidestep him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby’s “pick-me-up” position. Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms to the man’s.
Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby consummated their love and kinship… Erik in an act of total trust, love, and submission laid his tiny head upon the man’s ragged shoulder. The man’s eyes closed, and I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain, and hard labor, cradled my baby’s bottom and stroked his back.
No two beings have ever loved so deeply for so short a time. I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms and his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm commanding voice, “You take care of this baby.”
Somehow I managed, “I will,” from a throat that contained a stone.
He pried Erik from his chest, lovingly and longingly, as though he were in pain. I received my baby, and the man said, “God bless you, ma’am, you’ve given me my Christmas gift.”

I said nothing more than a muttered thanks.
With Erik in my arms, I ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying and holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, “My God, my God, forgive me.”
I had just witnessed Christ’s love shown through the innocence of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes. I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not.
I felt it was God asking, “Are you willing to share your son for a moment?” when He shared His for all eternity.

The ragged old man, unwittingly, had reminded me, “To enter the Kingdom of God, we must become as little children.”

By George Carroll